It is exactly a week today I left my marriage and my home and took shelter in the women's house. he has been calling non stop pleading his case as to why I need to return to the marriage for the following reasons:
1. He was not in control of his actions, someone was manipulating him with spiritual means, making him to be abusive and wicked towards his wife, that same person or persons is determined to make his marriage unsuccessful.
2. His bankruptcy case, If I leave the marriage, it would be very detrimental to his bankruptcy hearing in court.(honestly, I don't know how this affects the marriage, because I have been the sole benefactor in this marriage, the company we run is in my name, he earns his salary from there, household bills are paid from company account)
3. His age and history, it would be a shame from his family members who did not want the marriage to take place in the first place to find out that he is getting divorced for the third time. people will look at him as unable to keep a marriage.
4. He will not have the family 2.0 so to speak that he desires, with his history of all his children being raised by their mothers without him present, he wants to raise a family with me to prove to his Exes that his current family and children are better because they have both parents under same roof.
I have been used, I realized now that his sole mission in marrying me is to prove that he is better than his exes who are busy raising children that bears his name. I do not want to be the one who will give a man a redo family, if it means it is out of spite to someone else.
My kids will not be spoken about or seen to be been better than their siblings simply because they were raised in a household with both parents. I am that child that was raised in a household with one biological parent and I know for a fact what demons I carry and how I see my other siblings who had both parent growing up.
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